CHOP CHOP!

hey friends!

today i wanted to share with you about my new 'do a bit :)

so for months now i've been looking at long bobs ("lobs" as pinterest calls it) and have thought they were so cute and trendy, but when it came to the thought of cutting off all my hair length, i totally would chicken. 

for the longest time i've had really long hair. when i was pregnant with henry. my hair grew like crazy and got to the longest it had ever been. and since then i've always just kind of trimmed it or added a little bit of long layers, and it just got boring. 

my ponytails got boring.

heck, even when i curled it, i never really liked the way it looked. 

so i kept searching, and pinning ideas.

finally i found that i liked the julianne hough kind of textured hair, and kendra wilkenson's blunt lob length, and sure enough it was go time.

i really love the hair stylist i see.

she always does such a great balayage and uses olaplex to give me that buttery icy blonde i like so much.

so about 3 weeks ago, i went in, pictures ready and mentally ready to cut my hair. 

i showed her what we were doing, and immediately she shrieked and clapped with excitement.

before i had the chance to double take or back out, almost 8 inches laid on the floor around me, and instantly it was a breath of fresh air. 

i have loved my hairstyle more than ever, and enjoy styling and curling it so much.

it's been a fun change!

what have you always wanted to do to your hair?? what have you wished you had the guts to try?

xoxo, kess

I LOVE MY TRIBE.

we finally got pictures of our family of 4!

i thought i'd share some of my favorites here :)

love you all, happy sunday xoxo!

 

decisions decisions.

hello blogging world!

it's been a hot minute since i wrote a blog entry, and even longer since i wrote any sort of update so i figured i'd do a quick catch up for you guys, and share an idea i've had on my heart.

summer has seriously been a whirlwind of events for our family.

we have had both a smith family camping trip and the gummersall reunion, and enjoyed having the boys in the outdoors and spending time with our loved ones. 

we got a new camper in may and have used it lots!

we recently had a tire blow out on it though :( and on the 4th of July of all days.

it was really scary, and left our new camper quite damaged (we have only had it 2 months)

but despite that, it left me extremely grateful none of us were hurt. 

in addition to camping, we have spent time doing a lot of other fun activities. 

we have been to lunch-in-the-parks, swimming pools, splash pads, and kayak floats.

can you tell we love the water??

yesterday, we took the boys to roaring springs waterpark as a family and it was a blast!

that place seriously makes me feel like a kid again. 

at first, henry was super hesitant about trying new things and slides, but by the end of the day was already talking about coming back again.

oh, did i mention we were there from open to close?? (yep, 11-8 haha)

jett man was a huge fan of the water.

he loved floating in the lazy river they have, as well as mom and dad holding him so he could kick his legs and splash around.

the boys had so much fun!

hank and i tried out their intense slides as well, we are adrenaline junkies haha!

we also have really enjoyed getting together with my friend Amanda and her little girls.

we go to the parks, indoor playplaces, and mcdonalds frequently haha.

we sure love them, and they are seriously such dear friends to us. 

hank recently had a shift change, and has been rotated back on to graveyard shifts.

it's hard to have him gone at night and for dinner, but we are so thankful he has saturdays and sundays off now!

as for me, i will be starting back at work again tomorrow.

the restaurant i worked at previously has been super short-handed and asked me to come back, so i picked something that would help them and work for me. 

i have super mixed feelings about it, but a job is temporary, and i can always find something else or change it if it's not best for us. 

i shared earlier in this post that i've had an idea that's been heavy on my heart for months now.

an idea to start a YouTube makeup channel.

i am so so passionate about learning/trying makeup and all about dupes and tricks, and several people ask me for tips and recommendations frequently, so i thought it would be a perfect outlet.

i am a little hesitant on putting myself out there like that, but i really have wanted to for a while so we will see :)

how is your summer??

any plans/trips??

hope you all are doing well and having fun in the sun!

xoxo, kess

Bad Mood Busters.

do you guys ever find yourself in seasons with your moods?

like they'll be a period of time where you wake up, sun is shining, a pep in your step, and a positive outlook. (sure the few hiccups but overall a season of joy)

and periods of times where you are restless, life feels weary and heavy, and a hopeless outlook.

(all you see is hiccups and life seems daunting)

the older i get, i realize that happiness is a state, not a destination you just arrive at.

this particular quote comes to mind when writing that:

I feel like we don't give ourselves slack or credit in knowing it isn't "just us" that has those funks, That everyone's mood waxes and wanes over time in their lives. 

I, myself, have been feeling in one of those funks lately, and I just wanted to write down a few things that help me while I'm in them and pull me out :)

1, UNPLUG.

We live in such an overshared and excessively filtered life that sometimes it's easy to hold our own live to comparison, which obviously will bring us down because we are comparing to just a glimpse of perception, or someone's highlight moment. I find that when I'm in a funk, ya know, the kind leaving you feeling not enough or insecure, I simply unplug. I unplug from TV, which is filled with all sorts of "reality"shows that aren't real life at all, sitcoms (although funny, can give you a false outlook on how life is supposed to be) and improvement shows (improve your home, improve your looks, improve your wardrobe, the list goes on and on) I try to avoid social medias, pinterest, and tv all together, and I definitely notice a difference when I am in a vulnerable state. 

2. PUMP UP THE JAM.

I truly feel like music says the words our hearts can't sometimes, and honestly I am always playing music. Everyday since Henry was born I play "Here Comes The Sun" first thing when he wakes up and we snuggle in bed, and I love listening to Pandora cleaning house or out in the yard with the boys. But on these periods of feeling down, my music choice is different. I always lean towards Christian music and radio stations, they have really good ones on Pandora as well. I have 5 go-to songs that I just play over and over and have them fill my day when I can't even affirm myself.

-"Greater"by MercyMe

-"When I'm With You" by Citizen Way

-"Overcomer" by Mandisa

-"Savior Please" by Josh Wilson

-"This is the Stuff" by Francesca Battistelli

3. TREAT YO SELF.

Before you jump up and down all giddy thinking I'm encouraging a shopping spree or self indulgence every time you are down, let me clarify. I feel like life can be so monotonous and we spend so much time doing things that are outward, like work, bills, housework, errands, and such that sometimes we get down in the day to day grind of things. When I'm feeling discouraged, I "treat myself" with time to myself, like sitting in a coffee shop while Hank watches the boys, or even my evening walk alone with the dogs. I also mean treat myself with things that I enjoy. Maybe I sit down and craft, maybe I write a blog post, maybe I bake a new treat, maybe I play with my makeup, whatever it may be for you, TREAT YO SELF to YOU time!

4. REST AND REBOOT.

Sometimes when I just feel spent or like I am just dragging, I truly believe you need to rest up and have lots of self care. Sounds silly, but taking extra care of me really boosts me up! Even simple things like taking vitamins (Vitamin 5HTP, Vitamin B12, and St Johns Wort are awesome daily supplements for mood and energy) a bubble bath, a hair treatment, a face mask, heck, even a morning spent sleeping in (or for me just laying and resting with the boys) or an early bedtime really does wonders. That kind of self care and extra really gives me a push.

I hope you enjoyed this tips and found them helpful :)

Have you ever felt in a mood funk? 

What helps you through it?

I'd love to hear from you!

Just know we all have those seasons, and just like weather seasons, they will pass.

XOXO KESS

SUMMER FAVS.

hello lovely peeps!

Summer is here, summerrrrrrrr. (insert Olaf singing voice here)

I am so excited for pool days, camping, kayaking, and all the summer things with my little dudes. 

I feel like there are so many go-to products and items of mine I've been reaching for lately so I wanted to share, girlfriend to girlfriend, and let you in on all the favs of mine I've been loving lately!

1. Seashell Crop Top

So I don't really wear this as a crop top (I bought a large) but I thought it was super fun and fitting for summer. I found it browsing at H&M for $4.99 peeps, yepp, super cheap-o. I have worn it with black denim cut offs, as a coverup over my swimsuit at the pool, with a skirt, yoga pants and I just feel like a mermaid everytime I wear it :)

2. Love & Sunshine Lotion from B & B Works

This scent is happiness in a bottle! I used to love a bath and body works lotion a while back called "forever sunshine" and this one is very similiar but yummy in it's own way. Its got a sunny cheerful citrus smell that is refreshing and revitalizes me every time I put it on.  It's a combination of daisy, lemon, strawberry, honeysuckle and sunshine musk. It's a must scent for summertime!

3. Nume 32mm Classic Wand

You guys, I've seen all the hype on IG and social media about these Nume wands and seen so so many curl variations from them, as well as it repeatedly being known as holding curls for days. Well one day I was in TJ Maxx and spotted it for $24.99 and knew it was a steal. I love the loose waves it creates on my hair, and it heats up super fast. I love how on the next day it needs little/no touch ups and just add dry shampoo and go!

4. Makeup Essentials Bag

Is this bag not the funniest?! I loved it haha. I bought this for $3.99 at Rue21 the other day. It's a perfect catch all for makeup, bobby pins, hair ties, and things. I love throwing it in my purse, car, diaper bag, and swim bag!

5. Physicians Formula Butter Bronzer

This stuff is THE BOMB. This is going to sound nuts but even if you didn't need a bronzer, buy this thing for the smell haha. It smells like a tropical vacation, every time I open it, I can smell coconut. Makes me want a miami vice on the beach somewhere! I love telling other people about it and having them smell it. I own the hyped "Hoola" Bronzer by Benefit, and I can honestly say this is about as good! It's not too red, not ashy, and not shimmery. A very good bronzer, and a drugstore price!

6. Becca Cosmetics Shimmering Skin Perfector/Jaclyn Hill Champagne Pop

When it comes to makeup, eyeshadow and highlighter are my favorite things to do. I remember falling in love with Becca's highlighter in the shade Opal, and then when they came out with the collabaration with Jaclyn Hill, I saw the shade and instantly was in love. It's the perfect peachy gold highlight, and gives a nice sheen and glow from within. I apply this on the apples of my cheeks, tops of my cheekbones, cupid's bow above my top lip, and brow bones. If you wanna go crazy, douse yourself extra and put some on your shoulder blades and collar bones. Hello J-Lo, you got that glow!

7. NYX Prism Shadow "Mermaid" and ColourPop Cosmetics Shadow "Telepathy"

I love myself a deep lip color and smokey eye, but in the summer I really enjoy focusing on the face, giving a bronze and glow, and leaving the eyes pretty minimal. One of my favorite things to do is add a pop of color to my eyes, and these two are my go-tos. I love putting the mermaid shade on my waterline, and I love the lime green shade all over my lid. NYX is a pretty inexpensive brand, and if you go to ColourPop Cosmetics website and add yourself to their email list, you can get $5 off. The best part is that the eyeshadow itself is $5, so you basically just pay the shipping. YOU'RE WELCOME. :)

8. Sunnies

My friend Amanda gave me these, and I love the shape of them. You can never have too many for the summer!

9. Tartelette in Bloom Palette

When the original Tartelette palette came out, it didn't really excite me much. I remember going to Ulta and swatching it and thinking the shadows were chalky and not very pigmented. But then they came out with this second one and it blew my mind. It has a perfect mix of matte and shimmer shadows, mostly neutrals and browns. I seriously love this palette SO much and highly recommend. 

I hope you guys enjoyed this favorites post, I'd love to hear back from YOU!

What are some of your favorites for summer??

What's some products that you've been loving?

XOXO KESS

Jett is six months old!

happy half-birthday Jetty Jett!

I cannot believe you are SIX months old today, wow!

I have enjoyed taking these monthly pictures of you and seeing how you grow.

We are so blessed by your sweet spirit and smiley personality everyday.

You are one loved little bro too!

XOXO

Pinterest Picks.

hello there!

today i wanted to start a new little blog series called my "pinterest picks"

i thought it would be fun for me to jot down things that inspire me, i've tried, i relate, or anything that i am enjoying on pinterest lately and collectively list it here. 

what have you been eyeballing on there lately?

share with me!

xoxo kess